2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Revolt Against Rehoboam (1 Kings 12:1–19)
1 And Rehoboam went to Shechem, for all Israel had gone to Shechem to make him king. 2 So it happened, when Jeroboam the son of Nebat heard it (he was in Egypt, where he had fled from the presence of King Solomon), that Jeroboam returned from Egypt. 3 Then they sent for him and called him. And Jeroboam and all Israel came and spoke to Rehoboam, saying, 4 “Your father made our yoke heavy; now therefore, lighten the burdensome service of your father and his heavy yoke which he put on us, and we will serve you.”
5 So he said to them, “Come back to me after three days.” And the people departed.
6 Then King Rehoboam consulted the elders who stood before his father Solomon while he still lived, saying, “How do you advise me to answer these people?”
7 And they spoke to him, saying, “If you are kind to these people, and please them, and speak good words to them, they will be your servants forever.”
8 But he rejected the advice which the elders had given him, and consulted the young men who had grown up with him, who stood before him. 9 And he said to them, “What advice do you give? How should we answer this people who have spoken to me, saying, ‘Lighten the yoke which your father put on us’?”
10 Then the young men who had grown up with him spoke to him, saying, “Thus you should speak to the people who have spoken to you, saying, ‘Your father made our yoke heavy, but you make it lighter on us’—thus you shall say to them: ‘My little finger shall be thicker than my father’s waist! 11 And now, whereas my father put a heavy yoke on you, I will add to your yoke; my father chastised you with whips, but I will chastise you with scourges!’”
12 So Jeroboam and all the people came to Rehoboam on the third day, as the king had directed, saying, “Come back to me the third day.” 13 Then the king answered them roughly. King Rehoboam rejected the advice of the elders, 14 and he spoke to them according to the advice of the young men, saying, “My father made your yoke heavy, but I will add to it; my father chastised you with whips, but I will chastise you with scourges!” 15 So the king did not listen to the people; for the turn of events was from God, that the LORD might fulfill His word, which He had spoken by the hand of Ahijah the Shilonite to Jeroboam the son of Nebat.
16 Now when all Israel saw that the king did not listen to them, the people answered the king, saying:
“What share have we in David?
We have no inheritance in the son of Jesse.
Every man to your tents, O Israel!
Now see to your own house, O David!”
So all Israel departed to their tents. 17 But Rehoboam reigned over the children of Israel who dwelt in the cities of Judah.
18 Then King Rehoboam sent Hadoram, who was in charge of revenue; but the children of Israel stoned him with stones, and he died. Therefore King Rehoboam mounted his chariot in haste to flee to Jerusalem. 19 So Israel has been in rebellion against the house of David to this day.
King Rehoboam of Israel was to be made king and rejected good advice from the elders, listening instead to the inexperienced and rash young men of his age. The elders had stood in the presence of his father Solomon and no doubt gained much wisdom from the wisest man next to Jesus, yet Rehoboam chose to ignore their wise and good advice to be kind and speak kindly to the ones wanting change, but instead he chose to hear the bad advice of his childhood mates who rashly told him to instead speak with threats and ill-will as failed diplomacy. Rehoboam therefore answered Jeroboam and the people roughly, hard hearted and cruelly, with threats as he ignored the people and fulfilled the word of the LORD who had predicted (1 Kings 11:31, 40) this adverse turn of events to bring down Israel for their disobedience of idolatry and accompanying immortality as they turned from God’s word in disobedience. Israel split from Judah as promised by God after Solomon’s death just as Jeroboam had told them. Rehoboam remained in Judah after they all left and the rest of Israel remained in rebellion from that time forward. This is on one hand the predicted result of (1 Kings 11:33) of their apostasy and on the other hand a warning to not take advice from those not experienced in the wisdom coming from walking with the Lord (1 Timothy 3:6-7) for a long time, the young in Him who are neophytes, not spiritually mature enough to render sound advice to lead or follow. May we therefore listen to sound advice of those walking with the Lord according to His word and not just our old friends who may not be able to render good judgment to follow in making decisions for God’s people. The warning is not to reject wise advice as we read here.