Ezra 9:1-15
Intermarriage with Pagans
1 When these things were done, the leaders came to me, saying, “The people of Israel and the priests and the Levites have not separated themselves from the peoples of the lands, with respect to the abominations of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Perizzites, the Jebusites, the Ammonites, the Moabites, the Egyptians, and the Amorites. 2 For they have taken some of their daughters as wives for themselves and their sons, so that the holy seed is mixed with the peoples of those lands. Indeed, the hand of the leaders and rulers has been foremost in this trespass.” 3 So when I heard this thing, I tore my garment and my robe, and plucked out some of the hair of my head and beard, and sat down astonished. 4 Then everyone who trembled at the words of the God of Israel assembled to me, because of the transgression of those who had been carried away captive, and I sat astonished until the evening sacrifice.
5 At the evening sacrifice I arose from my fasting; and having torn my garment and my robe, I fell on my knees and spread out my hands to the LORD my God. 6 And I said: “O my God, I am too ashamed and humiliated to lift up my face to You, my God; for our iniquities have risen higher than our heads, and our guilt has grown up to the heavens. 7 Since the days of our fathers to this day we have been very guilty, and for our iniquities we, our kings, and our priests have been delivered into the hand of the kings of the lands, to the sword, to captivity, to plunder, and to humiliation, as it is this day. 8 And now for a little while grace has been shown from the LORD our God, to leave us a remnant to escape, and to give us a peg in His holy place, that our God may enlighten our eyes and give us a measure of revival in our bondage. 9 For we were slaves. Yet our God did not forsake us in our bondage; but He extended mercy to us in the sight of the kings of Persia, to revive us, to repair the house of our God, to rebuild its ruins, and to give us a wall in Judah and Jerusalem. 10 And now, O our God, what shall we say after this? For we have forsaken Your commandments, 11 which You commanded by Your servants the prophets, saying, ‘The land which you are entering to possess is an unclean land, with the uncleanness of the peoples of the lands, with their abominations which have filled it from one end to another with their impurity. 12 Now therefore, do not give your daughters as wives for their sons, nor take their daughters to your sons; and never seek their peace or prosperity, that you may be strong and eat the good of the land, and leave it as an inheritance to your children forever.’ 13 And after all that has come upon us for our evil deeds and for our great guilt, since You our God have punished us less than our iniquities deserve, and have given us such deliverance as this, 14 should we again break Your commandments, and join in marriage with the people committing these abominations? Would You not be angry with us until You had consumed us, so that there would be no remnant or survivor? 15 O LORD God of Israel, You are righteous, for we are left as a remnant, as it is this day. Here we are before You, in our guilt, though no one can stand before You because of this!”
The people of Israel who had returned from bondage returned also to their ancestors’ previous sins of idolatry instead of separating themselves from the world’s evil pursuits around them. Because they were unequally yoked with pagan women, they began sharing in the abominations of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Perizzites, the Jebusites, the Ammonites, the Moabites, the Egyptians, and the Amorites they married. Their holy seed was mixed with the unholy and it dragged them downward. We are reminded of this in Christ as God’s people today as we read 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 because we then defile the temples of God which we are (2 Corinthians 6:16) as we bring lifeless idols into these places meant only for holy worship of the Living God! This account in Ezra is our warning not to take this lightly and marry unbelievers who will drag us downwards into their abominations which are rejections of God’s word that is given to be followed and not spurned by putting others (Exodus 20:3, Jeremiah 25:6) before Him. Those we put ahead of holiness of sole worship to the Lord become our idols and by so doing we desecrate our temples. How can we who are in Christ then choose a wife or husband who is unholy and set up their idols in our temples (1 Corinthians 3:16-17) contrary to His teachings and devotion to Him? Ezra fasted and prayed without ceasing in his grief over what the people had done and felt the shame and humiliation of the returning sins which had led to their seventy years of exile in a godless land only to return to the land of promise and have them break their promise all over again. The inner sin nature is our greatest enemy that pulls us from holiness in living and choosing to honor our Savior Lord. Such disobedience leads us to repentance as Ezra demonstrated on behalf of the people to seek forgiveness from His consuming wrath in their guilt. Then the answer to such unholy unions in the time under the old covenant of works was to put away the unbelieving wife, whereas the grace in Christ’s covenant of grace now calls for something different as we read in 1 Corinthians 7:12-13, with the understanding that our witness to the unbelieving spouse is no reason to marry them knowing this, but that we are powerless to effect change (1 Corinthians 7:16) in them. The lesson then is not to marry an unbeliever and corrupt our temples with their unholy pursuits, but also not to automatically divorce them later as long as they consent to remain married and we see that we fail to influence them to repentance and faith to salvation. No one can stand before the Lord to dispute these things and still worship as we ought to do. May we then choose rather to be holy as He is and because He is righteous and merciful, and seek forgiveness through repentance if we have failed in this. May we seek godly offspring (Malachi 2:15, 1 Corinthians 7:14) through righteous choices instead as we tremble at God’s word in purity of body and soul.